Until July 2010, when her eyesight deteriorated, my mother wrote 1000s of chatty letters during her lifetime - to her parents, in-laws, sisters, children, friends. Tho she started to write to me on a regular basis in Sept '68 when I began my freshman year at SUNY-Buffalo, it wasn't until 10 years later that I decided to hold onto them. (Very inconsistently at first, to which the big gaps between dates attest.) These are the letters transcribed, annotated, and otherwise highlighted here.
Showing posts with label Dad's nighttime issues. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dad's nighttime issues. Show all posts
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Friday, February 5, 1999
It's 8:30 A.M. & all is quiet. This is Dale's early week so I'm up, dressed & set to go. Where - well I should cash a check for Feb. expenses so I plan to walk over town. It is sunny so should warm up a bit.
You got 2 letters as I'm trying to write letters on Fri. & mail them Sat. when I get my hair done. It doesn't always happen.
Early this A.M. - 3:15 I heard a noise & saw a light downstairs. Dad was up sitting in a chair - 2 lamps on in the L room, back door & basement light on & in the bathroom. Finally got him up, changed his Depend & got him back in bed. But I just dozed so I'll probably take a nap this aft.
Been thinking of Cindy & the baby. Be sure to keep me informed.
Already wrote notes to Millie & Gen.
Am watching the Weather Channel & one gal has a pretty yellow suit on. Makes me think of spring. We still have piles of snow in spots - the sun doesn't reach them - and it feels like spring but I know it's too early for W. Pa.
Noticed in the paper that the Mets fired Tim McCarver & hired Tom Seaver. AND they will be on Ch. WPIX so we'll see some of their games. Oh Happy Day! What more could I ask for?
Signe called last Sun. but Carolyn & I talked. Dad said a few words. Carolyn said she'd be taking Paul back to college & would miss the wedding. (Charles) But maybe Jim would take Signe. Hope you can make it.
In Buffalo there is talk about moving Children's Hospital & people are very upset about that. I watch Buff. Ch. 2 news - it is the most investing. NBC.
NASCAR racing starts Sun. & Dale is happy. The book on Dale Earnhardt family came & it is so interesting. Read it thru. He is family oriented. Followed in his father's footsteps & learned form him. Father died at 44 of a heart attack & he still misses him. Mother, 2 brothers & 2 sisters still in N. Carolina.
Aft. (PM)
I tried to get Dad up & he didn't want to so I let him sleep & went to cash a check. So I have my cash for the month. I got him up & he had "brunch", 2 meals in 2. He was up awhile & now he's sleeping again.
Stopped at the library & got "Pictures of Perfection" by Reginald Hill. Tried to get a book by Ian Rankin but couldn't find one & didn't have time to check. In Buff. paper there was a good review of his books in general & the latest one "Black & Blue". To quote - "There are no barrooms, no four letter words. And when he romances the town librarian, there are no affecting descriptions of just who does what to whom. They enjoyed their lovemaking 'he says', and that's all I'm going to tell you on the subject." My kind of book - tame!
We got a letter today from Messiah Church Auburn inviting us to the 75th Anniversary May 1 & 2. We can stay with Elfrieda Kennedy but it will be just a dream. No way can we accept,m as nice as it would be to return to Auburn once again. I'll have to write a letter.
Better bring to a close.
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Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Friday, June 5, 1998
We got your letter yesterday. Always interesting reading.
I'm watching tennis (men's) on T.V. No American made the finals.
Dale enjoyed his 3 days in Rochester. They had a test before they started on the studies & one when it was over. Dale got all the answers correct. He drives a Shults car & naturally wouldn't leave his car 3 days at the Mall. When he returned their car, he saw lights - went in & no one was there. Lights on, radio on & some machine not turned off. And the place a mess. So Dale shut the place up & locked the doors. Those are expensive tools they work with. I'm sure he will be cleaning up the place after work tonite. He said the course was very interesting & worthwhile. I told him I missed him & he said he missed home. It would be very lonesome for me if Barb & Dale weren't here. Last nite he mowed the lawn & edged along the sidewalk using Lar's edger. Lar was working at Carey's. Dale said it felt good to do physical work after sitting 3 days.
For 3 days in a row I've had to strip Dad's bed & wash it. Today even the blanket was wet. He doesn't know how it happens. He hates Depends & he doesn't like sleeping downstairs.
Have you been reading about the Wrrn. Library & the latest move. Must be tough on the new director. Wonder if he realized what he was getting into.
Interesting interleague baseball play this weekend. Wonder if they'll continue it. This time the Yankees play at the Mets & it's sold out. (The 2nd series.) Mets are at Boston this weekend. I'll finally see them Sun. nite on ESPN with Jon & Joe. Good announcers.
Buffalo Sabres didn't have it to get to the finals. Now it's Sat aft. & soon baseball on Fox TV.
I decided to have the Erie Sun. Times delivered. Don't have to pay for the 1st 4 Sun. as they are having a contest. Will bee billed from Erie quarterly.
It's cool so I've been baking this week. Made a coffee cake & raisin bars this A.M. Also a pie shell but I'm not sure how to fill it. Straw. are available at Hatch Patch. 3.75 qt. but they are full qts. Took a turkey out of the freezer so we'll have it tomorrow. Wanted the space in the freezer. I'm having coffee & a raisin bar now. And Mets vs. Boston is coming up. How lucky can I get!
Summer schedule starts tomorrow. Church starts at 9:30 A.M. And it will be cool so I can wear my new spring outfit. Pretty sweater (navy) & a navy print skirt. Got it from Penney's catalog. I did wear my new outfit.
Mon. A.M. This day hasn't had a good start. This is Dale's early week 7-4. He couldn't start his car as someone tried to steal it. They broke the starter. Luckily he had another one o& got it fixed & was only 1/2 hr. late. They left a knife & he didn't touch it. He called the police & they came & took the knife & checked things over.
I started washing & put clothes in the dryer & it made a big noise so something is wrong. Hope Dale can fix it. Also had started the next load of dark clothes. When they were finished there was the remains of kleenex. I didn't check the pockets thoroly. Now they're all on the line. It's a cool day, cloudy at time, but there is a breeze so I hope they'll all dry OK.
Saw Mary Ann C. & asked about Susan's baby. 4 lb & 7 oz. & it was a C section. It was a hard delivery so they decided to take it this way. But both are doing OK - baby gaining weight. Sara Elizabeth, a pretty name.
The Mets didn't fare so well last nite but 2 wins out of 3 isn't bad.
Have to add to Gen's letter. Her birthday is Sat so I'll have to get it off.
Is Eddie still on medication. You haven't mentioned how it is working, etc.
I'm watching tennis (men's) on T.V. No American made the finals.
Dale enjoyed his 3 days in Rochester. They had a test before they started on the studies & one when it was over. Dale got all the answers correct. He drives a Shults car & naturally wouldn't leave his car 3 days at the Mall. When he returned their car, he saw lights - went in & no one was there. Lights on, radio on & some machine not turned off. And the place a mess. So Dale shut the place up & locked the doors. Those are expensive tools they work with. I'm sure he will be cleaning up the place after work tonite. He said the course was very interesting & worthwhile. I told him I missed him & he said he missed home. It would be very lonesome for me if Barb & Dale weren't here. Last nite he mowed the lawn & edged along the sidewalk using Lar's edger. Lar was working at Carey's. Dale said it felt good to do physical work after sitting 3 days.
For 3 days in a row I've had to strip Dad's bed & wash it. Today even the blanket was wet. He doesn't know how it happens. He hates Depends & he doesn't like sleeping downstairs.
Have you been reading about the Wrrn. Library & the latest move. Must be tough on the new director. Wonder if he realized what he was getting into.
Interesting interleague baseball play this weekend. Wonder if they'll continue it. This time the Yankees play at the Mets & it's sold out. (The 2nd series.) Mets are at Boston this weekend. I'll finally see them Sun. nite on ESPN with Jon & Joe. Good announcers.
Buffalo Sabres didn't have it to get to the finals. Now it's Sat aft. & soon baseball on Fox TV.
I decided to have the Erie Sun. Times delivered. Don't have to pay for the 1st 4 Sun. as they are having a contest. Will bee billed from Erie quarterly.
It's cool so I've been baking this week. Made a coffee cake & raisin bars this A.M. Also a pie shell but I'm not sure how to fill it. Straw. are available at Hatch Patch. 3.75 qt. but they are full qts. Took a turkey out of the freezer so we'll have it tomorrow. Wanted the space in the freezer. I'm having coffee & a raisin bar now. And Mets vs. Boston is coming up. How lucky can I get!
Summer schedule starts tomorrow. Church starts at 9:30 A.M. And it will be cool so I can wear my new spring outfit. Pretty sweater (navy) & a navy print skirt. Got it from Penney's catalog. I did wear my new outfit.
Mon. A.M. This day hasn't had a good start. This is Dale's early week 7-4. He couldn't start his car as someone tried to steal it. They broke the starter. Luckily he had another one o& got it fixed & was only 1/2 hr. late. They left a knife & he didn't touch it. He called the police & they came & took the knife & checked things over.
I started washing & put clothes in the dryer & it made a big noise so something is wrong. Hope Dale can fix it. Also had started the next load of dark clothes. When they were finished there was the remains of kleenex. I didn't check the pockets thoroly. Now they're all on the line. It's a cool day, cloudy at time, but there is a breeze so I hope they'll all dry OK.
Saw Mary Ann C. & asked about Susan's baby. 4 lb & 7 oz. & it was a C section. It was a hard delivery so they decided to take it this way. But both are doing OK - baby gaining weight. Sara Elizabeth, a pretty name.
The Mets didn't fare so well last nite but 2 wins out of 3 isn't bad.
Have to add to Gen's letter. Her birthday is Sat so I'll have to get it off.
Is Eddie still on medication. You haven't mentioned how it is working, etc.
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